How to Pray When You Are in Agony of Soul

Psalm 13:1-6
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Pastor Colin asks the congregation to open their Bibles to Psalm 13 and introduces the theme of the sermon: “How to Pray When You Are in an Agony of Soul”. He emphasises the importance of this psalm in addressing human suffering which persists without end.

Colin points out that Psalm 13 begins with the repeated question, “how long?”, highlighting that prolonged suffering is often harder to endure than intense but short-lived trials. He suggests three ways the psalm can aid believers: during the loss of a loved one, family strain, and long-term exhaustion.

He recounts the story of Nicholas Walterstaff, who chronicled his grief after losing his son, illustrating that grief, like love, is enduring. He relates Psalm 13 to family issues and long-term burdens, noting that strained relationships and continuous responsibilities can lead to feelings of abandonment by God.

The pastor then shares key insights into how to pray during such times of deep anguish by offering four steps from the psalm. First, lay out what you feel openly before God, as David did. Second, lift up what you need, asking God for strength and not solely for answers. Third, lean into what you know about God’s steadfast love. The final step is to look to Jesus Christ, who endured agony and understands our suffering.

Pastor Colin underscores that recognising and accepting prolonged trials, rather than expecting immediate relief, often aligns with Christian experience. He concludes with poignant quotes from John Stott and Edward Sciletto, emphasising that Jesus’s suffering and wounds make Him the perfect saviour for a suffering world.

The message ends with a prayer of thanks to Almighty God for Jesus Christ, the suffering yet exalted saviour, and an invitation for the weary to find rest in Him.

1 00:00:00,000 –> 00:00:03,500 Now, will you open your Bible, please, at Psalm 13? 2 00:00:03,500 –> 00:00:11,360 Our title today is, How to Pray When You Are in an Agony of Soul. 3 00:00:11,360 –> 00:00:16,219 And I think the first thing to say is thank God that this psalm is in the Bible because 4 00:00:16,219 –> 00:00:17,940 we need it. 5 00:00:17,940 –> 00:00:25,379 We live in a suffering world and a faith that does not speak to human pain is simply not 6 00:00:25,379 –> 00:00:26,820 worth taking seriously. 7 00:00:27,740 –> 00:00:34,779 Psalm 13 is particularly addressed to struggles that show no sign of ending. 8 00:00:34,779 –> 00:00:40,139 So four times in the first two verses you have the same question, how long? 9 00:00:40,139 –> 00:00:42,060 How long? 10 00:00:42,060 –> 00:00:43,959 How long? 11 00:00:43,959 –> 00:00:45,599 How long? 12 00:00:45,599 –> 00:00:51,020 And we all know that the hardest trials are not the ones that hurt the deepest. 13 00:00:51,020 –> 00:00:55,500 The hardest trials are those that endure the longest. 14 00:00:55,540 –> 00:00:59,880 And so this is a psalm that speaks to these situations of our lives. 15 00:00:59,880 –> 00:01:04,400 Now sort of beginning with the application, which might seem the wrong way around, but 16 00:01:04,400 –> 00:01:10,199 it will chun our minds I think to the use of this psalm, I want to suggest three particular 17 00:01:10,199 –> 00:01:14,820 ways in which this psalm may be especially useful to us. 18 00:01:14,820 –> 00:01:18,980 Particular situations that don’t exist at every point in life, but will immediately 19 00:01:18,980 –> 00:01:25,320 touch today many in our congregation, one of these three, and for many of us, many more 20 00:01:25,339 –> 00:01:30,660 of us, one of these will touch us at some point in our lives. 21 00:01:30,660 –> 00:01:34,000 The first of these is the loss of a loved one. 22 00:01:34,000 –> 00:01:43,080 I’ve been reading this book through the week, Lament For A Son by Nicholas Walterstaff. 23 00:01:43,080 –> 00:01:50,239 Walterstaff went through the tragic loss of his 25-year-old son through a climbing accident 24 00:01:50,800 –> 00:01:56,480 and in the year that followed that devastating experience, that a good number in our congregation 25 00:01:56,480 –> 00:02:00,040 have also endured, he maintained a journal 26 00:02:00,040 –> 00:02:03,260 and wrote down his many thoughts and his struggles. 27 00:02:03,260 –> 00:02:05,879 It’s compelling and it is very, very moving. 28 00:02:05,879 –> 00:02:07,760 He published it clearly, 29 00:02:07,760 –> 00:02:10,440 and 12 years later, 30 00:02:10,440 –> 00:02:12,820 reflecting on his experience, 31 00:02:12,820 –> 00:02:14,800 this is what he writes. 32 00:02:14,800 –> 00:02:17,020 Often I am asked 33 00:02:17,020 –> 00:02:22,020 whether the grief remains as intense as when I wrote. 34 00:02:22,240 –> 00:02:24,639 The answer is no. 35 00:02:24,639 –> 00:02:27,679 The wound is no longer raw, 36 00:02:27,679 –> 00:02:30,380 but it has not disappeared, 37 00:02:30,380 –> 00:02:32,320 and that is how it should be. 38 00:02:33,179 –> 00:02:35,899 If he was worth loving, 39 00:02:35,899 –> 00:02:38,699 he is worth grieving over. 40 00:02:38,699 –> 00:02:40,820 Grief is testimony 41 00:02:40,820 –> 00:02:43,880 to the worth of the loved one 42 00:02:43,880 –> 00:02:46,839 and that worth abides. 43 00:02:46,839 –> 00:02:49,300 So I own my grief. 44 00:02:49,300 –> 00:02:51,259 I do not try and put it behind me 45 00:02:51,259 –> 00:02:53,300 to get over it or to forget it. 46 00:02:53,300 –> 00:02:55,240 If someone asks me, 47 00:02:55,240 –> 00:02:57,339 who are you, tell me about yourself, 48 00:02:57,339 –> 00:03:00,300 I say, not immediately, but shortly, 49 00:03:00,300 –> 00:03:03,259 I am one who lost a son. 50 00:03:03,259 –> 00:03:05,179 That determines my identity, 51 00:03:05,179 –> 00:03:06,479 not all of it, 52 00:03:06,479 –> 00:03:08,059 but much of it. 53 00:03:08,059 –> 00:03:10,740 It belongs within my story. 54 00:03:10,740 –> 00:03:14,500 I struggle indeed to go beyond merely owning my grief 55 00:03:14,500 –> 00:03:16,899 towards owning it redemptively, 56 00:03:16,899 –> 00:03:21,119 but I will not and I cannot disown it, 57 00:03:21,119 –> 00:03:23,179 and everyone who has been through that experience 58 00:03:23,179 –> 00:03:26,500 will know exactly what he is saying. 59 00:03:26,500 –> 00:03:28,419 Psalm 13 is a lament, 60 00:03:28,419 –> 00:03:30,279 we spoke about laments earlier in the year 61 00:03:30,279 –> 00:03:31,679 when we were in the book of Joel, 62 00:03:31,679 –> 00:03:33,139 you may remember, 63 00:03:33,139 –> 00:03:37,300 and this is a lament that is especially useful 64 00:03:38,020 –> 00:03:40,779 for any person who walks through a journey 65 00:03:40,779 –> 00:03:43,880 of irreplaceable loss. 66 00:03:44,820 –> 00:03:46,759 Second application, 67 00:03:46,759 –> 00:03:50,320 when there is strain in the family. 68 00:03:50,320 –> 00:03:52,979 James Boyce writes very perceptively on this, 69 00:03:52,979 –> 00:03:55,960 he describes what I think is actually quite common 70 00:03:55,960 –> 00:03:59,699 in families at least at some stage of life, 71 00:03:59,699 –> 00:04:01,059 but he describes it so well, 72 00:04:01,059 –> 00:04:03,259 I just want to quote from him, 73 00:04:03,259 –> 00:04:04,100 he says, 74 00:04:04,100 –> 00:04:08,100 It may be that the happiness of the early days 75 00:04:08,100 –> 00:04:12,600 of a marriage has been replaced by the stress 76 00:04:12,600 –> 00:04:16,239 of trying to work out personality conflicts 77 00:04:16,239 –> 00:04:18,000 or other difficulties. 78 00:04:18,000 –> 00:04:20,019 He describes that very well. 79 00:04:20,019 –> 00:04:21,220 You may be wondering 80 00:04:21,220 –> 00:04:24,500 if God has ceased to bless your marriage. 81 00:04:24,500 –> 00:04:27,279 Your problems he says may involve children, 82 00:04:27,279 –> 00:04:28,519 you remember the early days 83 00:04:28,519 –> 00:04:30,760 when it was comparatively easy to rear them, 84 00:04:30,760 –> 00:04:33,179 your family had many good times together, 85 00:04:33,179 –> 00:04:36,480 but now one or more of your children is antagonistic 86 00:04:36,480 –> 00:04:37,839 and everyone else in the family 87 00:04:37,839 –> 00:04:40,339 suffers under the inevitable strain, 88 00:04:40,339 –> 00:04:43,959 nobody has fun anymore. 89 00:04:43,959 –> 00:04:46,480 And if you’re in a place where the joy 90 00:04:46,480 –> 00:04:48,140 has gone out of life 91 00:04:48,140 –> 00:04:50,880 when you feel that you are enduring 92 00:04:50,880 –> 00:04:53,160 rather than enjoying, 93 00:04:53,160 –> 00:04:57,119 then psalm 13 is definitely for you. 94 00:04:57,119 –> 00:04:59,019 Here you are in a marriage 95 00:04:59,019 –> 00:05:00,559 where you expected so much, 96 00:05:00,679 –> 00:05:03,839 you had such anticipation of continuing joy 97 00:05:03,839 –> 00:05:06,440 and yet you’re in this strain 98 00:05:06,440 –> 00:05:07,920 that seems to be going on 99 00:05:07,920 –> 00:05:10,679 of temperaments and personalities 100 00:05:10,679 –> 00:05:13,820 that just are rubbing in the wrong way 101 00:05:13,820 –> 00:05:15,440 and you say, how long? 102 00:05:16,359 –> 00:05:19,720 And psalm 13 speaks right into the reality 103 00:05:19,720 –> 00:05:20,559 of your experience. 104 00:05:20,559 –> 00:05:24,480 Third situation, long-term exhaustion. 105 00:05:24,480 –> 00:05:26,980 And some of you will know about this right now 106 00:05:26,980 –> 00:05:29,839 and many others at different times of life. 107 00:05:29,839 –> 00:05:31,040 Here’s what this looks like. 108 00:05:31,040 –> 00:05:32,920 You have been carrying a heavy burden 109 00:05:32,920 –> 00:05:34,540 that has been trusted to you 110 00:05:34,540 –> 00:05:35,519 and you have been doing it 111 00:05:35,519 –> 00:05:37,480 for a long period of time 112 00:05:37,480 –> 00:05:40,119 and now the strain is beginning to tell. 113 00:05:41,480 –> 00:05:43,959 It may be that you are enduring 114 00:05:43,959 –> 00:05:48,559 long-term physical pain or mental anguish 115 00:05:48,559 –> 00:05:49,700 or it may simply be 116 00:05:49,700 –> 00:05:52,119 the sheer weight of responsibility. 117 00:05:52,119 –> 00:05:53,779 God has been sustaining you 118 00:05:53,779 –> 00:05:55,239 but the longer you go on 119 00:05:55,239 –> 00:05:56,279 carrying this burden, 120 00:05:56,279 –> 00:05:58,399 the heavier it seems to get 121 00:05:58,399 –> 00:06:00,640 and you’re becoming more and more aware of that 122 00:06:00,640 –> 00:06:02,480 and you say how long, oh Lord, 123 00:06:02,480 –> 00:06:04,679 I’m not sure how long I can do this 124 00:06:04,679 –> 00:06:08,880 and this Psalm is definitely for you. 125 00:06:10,019 –> 00:06:13,100 Now if you are not in one of these three situations today 126 00:06:13,100 –> 00:06:14,519 the first thing I want to say to you 127 00:06:14,519 –> 00:06:16,279 is be very thankful. 128 00:06:16,279 –> 00:06:18,260 You say well, I thank God 129 00:06:18,260 –> 00:06:19,839 and then immediately recognize 130 00:06:19,839 –> 00:06:21,880 that many of your brothers and sisters around you 131 00:06:21,880 –> 00:06:24,359 are in one of these situations 132 00:06:24,359 –> 00:06:25,760 and that it is very important 133 00:06:25,760 –> 00:06:28,200 to be sensitive to the needs 134 00:06:28,200 –> 00:06:31,679 and to the burdens that are carried by others. 135 00:06:32,660 –> 00:06:35,399 And then if you have been shaped 136 00:06:35,399 –> 00:06:37,920 by a form of Christianity 137 00:06:38,799 –> 00:06:41,380 that only speaks about prayers being answered 138 00:06:41,380 –> 00:06:44,519 and faith that receives and blessings that abound 139 00:06:44,519 –> 00:06:46,720 you need to take this Psalm 140 00:06:46,720 –> 00:06:48,679 and others like it seriously 141 00:06:50,000 –> 00:06:52,959 because we live in a suffering world 142 00:06:54,040 –> 00:06:57,339 and Christians are not exempt from that suffering. 143 00:06:58,420 –> 00:07:01,200 And anyone who takes the Bible seriously 144 00:07:01,200 –> 00:07:03,359 has to come to the conclusion 145 00:07:03,359 –> 00:07:06,279 that those who follow the crucified one 146 00:07:06,279 –> 00:07:09,760 cannot expect to live a pain-free life. 147 00:07:12,079 –> 00:07:14,540 God speaks to a suffering world, 148 00:07:14,540 –> 00:07:17,040 speaks to human pain. 149 00:07:18,260 –> 00:07:19,940 One of the greatest chapters of the Bible, 150 00:07:19,940 –> 00:07:23,019 surely Romans in Chapter Eight. 151 00:07:23,019 –> 00:07:24,100 How does it begin? 152 00:07:24,100 –> 00:07:28,079 There is no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus. 153 00:07:28,079 –> 00:07:29,220 How does it end? 154 00:07:29,220 –> 00:07:32,100 Nothing shall ever separate us from the love of Christ. 155 00:07:32,100 –> 00:07:35,459 What does it say in the middle? 156 00:07:35,459 –> 00:07:40,459 We who have the Holy Spirit groan inwardly 157 00:07:40,739 –> 00:07:43,239 as we await for our adoption of sons, 158 00:07:43,239 –> 00:07:45,880 the redemption of our bodies. 159 00:07:45,880 –> 00:07:49,700 So there’s the reality of experience 160 00:07:49,700 –> 00:07:51,220 between the wonderful knowledge 161 00:07:51,220 –> 00:07:53,220 that there’s no condemnation in Christ 162 00:07:53,220 –> 00:07:54,940 and the sure and certain foundation 163 00:07:54,940 –> 00:07:56,940 that nothing can ever separate us 164 00:07:56,980 –> 00:07:58,959 from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus. 165 00:07:58,959 –> 00:08:01,820 What’s the experience of those who have the Spirit? 166 00:08:02,700 –> 00:08:05,559 Paul says it includes this. 167 00:08:05,559 –> 00:08:09,640 We groan inwardly as we are waiting 168 00:08:09,640 –> 00:08:11,980 for the adoption of sons 169 00:08:11,980 –> 00:08:13,440 and for the redemption of our bodies. 170 00:08:13,440 –> 00:08:17,480 Now Psalm 13 is simply a groaning Psalm 171 00:08:17,480 –> 00:08:20,140 and it is placed in the Bible 172 00:08:20,140 –> 00:08:23,559 because with the reality of life in this world, 173 00:08:23,559 –> 00:08:25,019 we all need it. 174 00:08:25,779 –> 00:08:28,640 Our title today then is how to pray 175 00:08:28,640 –> 00:08:33,000 when you are in an agony of soul. 176 00:08:33,000 –> 00:08:36,320 How to pray when you are in an agony of soul. 177 00:08:36,320 –> 00:08:38,840 I want to give four answers to that question 178 00:08:38,840 –> 00:08:40,539 from the Scriptures today 179 00:08:40,539 –> 00:08:43,679 and so I hope you’ll have the Psalm open in front of you. 180 00:08:43,679 –> 00:08:47,020 How should you pray when for whatever reason 181 00:08:47,020 –> 00:08:51,880 you find yourself in an agony of soul? 182 00:08:51,880 –> 00:08:56,340 Number one, lay out what you feel 183 00:08:56,340 –> 00:08:58,840 and that’s in the first two verses. 184 00:08:58,840 –> 00:09:02,359 How long, O Lord, will you forget me forever? 185 00:09:03,239 –> 00:09:07,239 How long will you hide your face from me? 186 00:09:07,239 –> 00:09:09,679 How long must I take counsel in my soul 187 00:09:09,679 –> 00:09:13,320 and have sorrow in my heart all the day? 188 00:09:13,320 –> 00:09:17,900 How long shall my enemy be exalted over me? 189 00:09:19,039 –> 00:09:21,859 The most striking thing, surely, about these verses 190 00:09:21,900 –> 00:09:25,400 is that David is speaking here with complete candor, 191 00:09:25,400 –> 00:09:26,820 absolute frankness. 192 00:09:26,820 –> 00:09:28,619 This is no-holds-barred, 193 00:09:28,619 –> 00:09:32,099 saying it like it is in the presence of God. 194 00:09:33,000 –> 00:09:35,559 And David is feeling that he has reached the limit 195 00:09:35,559 –> 00:09:37,799 of what he can endure in these struggles. 196 00:09:37,799 –> 00:09:40,780 How can I carry on like this, he says to God? 197 00:09:40,780 –> 00:09:43,440 And he lays it all out in the presence of God. 198 00:09:44,320 –> 00:09:47,679 Wonderfully releasing, wonderfully important. 199 00:09:48,679 –> 00:09:50,500 His struggle comes in three parts. 200 00:09:50,500 –> 00:09:52,239 He has a struggle with his enemy, 201 00:09:52,239 –> 00:09:54,659 whatever he’s up against. 202 00:09:54,659 –> 00:09:55,419 And he says, 203 00:09:55,419 –> 00:09:59,260 how long shall my enemy be exalted over me? 204 00:09:59,260 –> 00:10:00,880 Notice that phrase, over me. 205 00:10:00,880 –> 00:10:01,719 In other words, 206 00:10:01,719 –> 00:10:05,119 he’s feeling that whatever it was that David was facing, 207 00:10:05,119 –> 00:10:08,059 it’s got the upper hand over him. 208 00:10:08,059 –> 00:10:09,900 He’s not on top of it. 209 00:10:09,900 –> 00:10:11,299 It’s on top of him. 210 00:10:11,299 –> 00:10:12,260 It’s over me. 211 00:10:12,260 –> 00:10:13,859 He feels pressed down by it. 212 00:10:13,859 –> 00:10:16,539 He’s not prevailing over it. 213 00:10:16,640 –> 00:10:18,700 If you had said to David, 214 00:10:18,700 –> 00:10:20,900 we’ve got a seminar on Saturday 215 00:10:20,900 –> 00:10:24,320 called how to live a victorious Christian life, 216 00:10:24,320 –> 00:10:25,659 David would have said, 217 00:10:25,659 –> 00:10:28,500 that’s not for me because I’m not living in victory. 218 00:10:28,500 –> 00:10:30,419 I’m feeling that I’m under this thing. 219 00:10:30,419 –> 00:10:33,000 That’s the reality of my experience. 220 00:10:34,479 –> 00:10:35,659 I feel defeated. 221 00:10:37,179 –> 00:10:39,000 I barely know how to keep going, 222 00:10:39,000 –> 00:10:40,799 let alone be victorious. 223 00:10:42,780 –> 00:10:45,359 Second, he’s struggling with himself. 224 00:10:46,039 –> 00:10:48,559 How long must I take counsel in my soul 225 00:10:48,559 –> 00:10:51,219 and have sorrow in my heart all day, 226 00:10:51,219 –> 00:10:53,520 taking counsel in my soul? 227 00:10:53,520 –> 00:10:56,840 In other words, he’s going round and round in circles 228 00:10:56,840 –> 00:10:58,320 in his own internal thoughts. 229 00:10:58,320 –> 00:11:00,820 You know what that’s like when you’re distressed. 230 00:11:01,840 –> 00:11:02,760 What am I gonna do? 231 00:11:02,760 –> 00:11:04,640 Why didn’t I do this? 232 00:11:04,640 –> 00:11:05,760 Why didn’t I do the other? 233 00:11:05,760 –> 00:11:06,880 How am I gonna survive? 234 00:11:06,880 –> 00:11:08,960 How can I carry on? 235 00:11:08,960 –> 00:11:12,179 And these relentless questions going on in the soul 236 00:11:12,179 –> 00:11:13,520 and in this situation, 237 00:11:13,520 –> 00:11:15,679 none of them making any progress whatsoever. 238 00:11:15,679 –> 00:11:17,219 There’s never any answer. 239 00:11:18,400 –> 00:11:23,400 Endless conversation going on within the soul, 240 00:11:23,520 –> 00:11:27,900 but because he’s only taking counsel with himself, 241 00:11:27,900 –> 00:11:30,539 he feels God is so far off. 242 00:11:30,539 –> 00:11:33,400 He never breaks out of this cycle 243 00:11:33,400 –> 00:11:36,619 of feeling completely defeated by the whole circumstance 244 00:11:36,619 –> 00:11:37,919 in which he finds himself. 245 00:11:39,500 –> 00:11:41,059 And then, of course, the heart of it, 246 00:11:41,059 –> 00:11:43,280 which is why it’s at the beginning, 247 00:11:43,280 –> 00:11:44,619 is his struggle with God. 248 00:11:44,619 –> 00:11:47,760 Oh Lord, will you forget me forever? 249 00:11:47,760 –> 00:11:49,780 Hide your face from me. 250 00:11:51,140 –> 00:11:52,559 And here’s the heart of the problem 251 00:11:52,559 –> 00:11:53,520 that he’s struggling with, 252 00:11:53,520 –> 00:11:54,760 and do you know what this is like 253 00:11:54,760 –> 00:11:56,900 if you’ve been through this kind of experience? 254 00:11:56,900 –> 00:12:00,479 Why does God seem so far away when I need him the most, 255 00:12:00,479 –> 00:12:02,559 that’s what he’s saying here. 256 00:12:05,000 –> 00:12:08,159 Now, you may be asking the question, how common is this? 257 00:12:08,159 –> 00:12:11,059 Is this that sort of really strange experience 258 00:12:11,059 –> 00:12:12,479 that David is going through? 259 00:12:12,479 –> 00:12:15,140 Listen to this comment again from James Boice 260 00:12:15,140 –> 00:12:16,359 that I found helpful. 261 00:12:16,359 –> 00:12:19,739 He says, speaking out of years of pastoral experience, 262 00:12:19,739 –> 00:12:24,739 I am convinced that a feeling of abandonment 263 00:12:24,820 –> 00:12:28,619 is far more common than it appears to be. 264 00:12:28,619 –> 00:12:31,340 Many people feel abandoned first by others 265 00:12:31,340 –> 00:12:33,479 but ultimately also by God. 266 00:12:33,479 –> 00:12:36,619 And he’s talking about Christian believers here. 267 00:12:36,619 –> 00:12:38,500 He goes on to say that although this is, 268 00:12:38,500 –> 00:12:40,359 in his experience, a common problem, 269 00:12:40,359 –> 00:12:44,239 he is surprised by the degree to which it is ignored. 270 00:12:44,239 –> 00:12:47,760 Why do you suppose this is, he asks. 271 00:12:47,760 –> 00:12:52,760 Answer, I think it is because we have been taught 272 00:12:52,960 –> 00:12:57,440 that Christians are not supposed to experience such things 273 00:12:59,099 –> 00:13:01,859 and that we are only to have life more abundantly 274 00:13:02,940 –> 00:13:05,840 or to live victoriously. 275 00:13:06,599 –> 00:13:11,039 Well thank God, David does speak about it 276 00:13:11,039 –> 00:13:13,599 and everyone who knows this experience will be saying, 277 00:13:13,599 –> 00:13:16,760 oh thank God, the truth of the bible 278 00:13:16,760 –> 00:13:20,640 cuts through some of the clutter 279 00:13:20,640 –> 00:13:25,219 and the trite phraseology that can so easily exist 280 00:13:25,219 –> 00:13:27,559 in our world of wellbeing. 281 00:13:27,559 –> 00:13:31,659 Here is some real honesty 282 00:13:32,500 –> 00:13:36,580 of a Godly man whose struggling with the fact 283 00:13:36,580 –> 00:13:39,340 that God seems to be paying no attention 284 00:13:39,340 –> 00:13:41,539 to him at the very point 285 00:13:41,539 –> 00:13:44,119 where his need is greatest. 286 00:13:44,119 –> 00:13:45,619 Now this is the first thing 287 00:13:45,619 –> 00:13:47,020 that we’re learning from this psalm. 288 00:13:47,020 –> 00:13:48,940 What does David do in this situation? 289 00:13:48,940 –> 00:13:51,059 He lays it out before the Lord, 290 00:13:51,059 –> 00:13:52,919 he opens up what he feels. 291 00:13:54,419 –> 00:13:57,440 Now friend, doing that will not solve the problem 292 00:13:57,440 –> 00:14:00,820 but it will be helpful and it is important. 293 00:14:00,820 –> 00:14:03,260 No relationship with God can be sustained 294 00:14:03,260 –> 00:14:06,760 apart from truthfulness, integrity, honesty. 295 00:14:07,940 –> 00:14:09,859 And God seeks a relationship with you 296 00:14:09,859 –> 00:14:14,320 that is marked by honesty, not by pretense. 297 00:14:14,320 –> 00:14:17,159 And it’s actually the strength of David’s faith. 298 00:14:18,219 –> 00:14:20,820 It is actually the hunger that David has 299 00:14:20,820 –> 00:14:23,739 for a felt knowledge of God 300 00:14:23,739 –> 00:14:25,780 that gives rise to this prayer 301 00:14:25,780 –> 00:14:28,380 that comes out of the very depth of his soul. 302 00:14:28,940 –> 00:14:31,520 And so how are you to pray 303 00:14:31,520 –> 00:14:34,119 when you are in an agony of soul? 304 00:14:34,119 –> 00:14:35,719 Here’s the first thing. 305 00:14:35,719 –> 00:14:39,020 Lay out what you feel. 306 00:14:39,020 –> 00:14:42,239 No holds barred in the presence of God. 307 00:14:42,239 –> 00:14:44,260 Have no inhibitions about it. 308 00:14:44,260 –> 00:14:46,679 There is nothing that is hidden from him. 309 00:14:46,679 –> 00:14:48,460 And it is so important for you 310 00:14:48,460 –> 00:14:51,960 to follow the example and the model of David here. 311 00:14:51,960 –> 00:14:52,799 That’s the first thing. 312 00:14:52,799 –> 00:14:54,520 Here’s the second. 313 00:14:54,520 –> 00:14:57,520 Lift up what you need. 314 00:14:57,559 –> 00:15:00,000 Lift up what you need. 315 00:15:00,960 –> 00:15:01,859 Verses three and four. 316 00:15:01,859 –> 00:15:05,500 Consider and answer me, O Lord my God. 317 00:15:05,500 –> 00:15:08,479 And here’s the heart of his request in the prayer. 318 00:15:08,479 –> 00:15:13,099 Light up my eyes 319 00:15:14,159 –> 00:15:16,179 lest I sleep in death. 320 00:15:16,179 –> 00:15:18,260 And so on. 321 00:15:18,260 –> 00:15:20,039 Now let me try and make this very practical 322 00:15:20,039 –> 00:15:21,359 for all of us here today. 323 00:15:22,159 –> 00:15:26,940 How would you try and help a person in your life group 324 00:15:26,940 –> 00:15:31,940 who this week shared with you and with the others 325 00:15:33,320 –> 00:15:35,599 that they felt utterly abandoned by God, 326 00:15:35,599 –> 00:15:36,960 what would you say? 327 00:15:36,960 –> 00:15:39,840 And this may very well happen in some groups. 328 00:15:39,840 –> 00:15:41,760 If someone were to say, 329 00:15:41,760 –> 00:15:45,159 now, I have been a believer for many, many years 330 00:15:45,159 –> 00:15:49,599 but right now, I feel that God has forgotten me. 331 00:15:49,599 –> 00:15:51,039 I feel he’s not looking in my direction, 332 00:15:51,039 –> 00:15:53,200 he’s hiding his face from me. 333 00:15:54,719 –> 00:15:56,960 What if someone was to say in your life group this week, 334 00:15:56,960 –> 00:15:59,380 I have been praying and praying and praying 335 00:15:59,380 –> 00:16:01,179 and I never get an answer. 336 00:16:01,179 –> 00:16:02,799 Someone just say that to me this week 337 00:16:02,799 –> 00:16:05,940 and of course, that’s something that is often 338 00:16:05,940 –> 00:16:08,039 a burden for a Christian believer, 339 00:16:08,039 –> 00:16:09,460 God’s hiding his face from me, 340 00:16:09,460 –> 00:16:10,599 I have no sense of his love, 341 00:16:10,599 –> 00:16:12,359 I have no sense of his presence. 342 00:16:14,099 –> 00:16:15,299 How would you help them? 343 00:16:16,799 –> 00:16:19,739 Well, let me make these three suggestions to you. 344 00:16:20,739 –> 00:16:24,500 First, it is very important to recognize the experience 345 00:16:24,500 –> 00:16:27,419 and that’s one of the ways in which Psalm 13 helps us. 346 00:16:28,400 –> 00:16:32,760 If a mature believer, like David 347 00:16:32,760 –> 00:16:34,820 who was a man after God’s own heart 348 00:16:34,820 –> 00:16:36,640 can feel abandoned by God, 349 00:16:36,640 –> 00:16:38,460 then no one should be surprised 350 00:16:38,460 –> 00:16:40,820 when it happens to others among us. 351 00:16:42,840 –> 00:16:46,299 Don’t assume the worst about a believer 352 00:16:46,299 –> 00:16:48,419 who feels that God has abandoned them. 353 00:16:49,940 –> 00:16:51,900 You may find that someone within your life group, 354 00:16:51,900 –> 00:16:53,460 someone who is a Christian friend 355 00:16:53,460 –> 00:16:55,000 says some very strong things 356 00:16:55,000 –> 00:16:57,299 where they’re in the depth of grief 357 00:16:57,299 –> 00:16:58,219 and you may say, 358 00:16:58,219 –> 00:17:00,359 well how could they possibly have said that? 359 00:17:01,219 –> 00:17:04,380 And if you are rooted in the Bible 360 00:17:04,380 –> 00:17:05,760 you will have some understanding. 361 00:17:05,760 –> 00:17:08,439 You’ll say, well even David was there. 362 00:17:08,439 –> 00:17:11,199 So recognize the experience. 363 00:17:11,199 –> 00:17:13,439 Second discern the question 364 00:17:14,699 –> 00:17:16,900 now here’s something worth remembering. 365 00:17:17,319 –> 00:17:19,800 It is a great mistake 366 00:17:19,800 –> 00:17:22,020 to assume that everyone who suffers 367 00:17:22,020 –> 00:17:24,219 is asking the question, why? 368 00:17:26,780 –> 00:17:28,819 Many people ask the question, why? 369 00:17:28,819 –> 00:17:30,219 When they suffer. 370 00:17:30,219 –> 00:17:33,819 But others ask the question, how long? 371 00:17:33,819 –> 00:17:36,540 Which is a very different question. 372 00:17:36,540 –> 00:17:38,339 These are totally different questions. 373 00:17:38,339 –> 00:17:40,260 One is a question of meaning. 374 00:17:40,260 –> 00:17:42,260 The other is a question of endurance. 375 00:17:43,579 –> 00:17:44,719 And it’s very important 376 00:17:44,719 –> 00:17:46,859 if you want to help a person who’s suffering 377 00:17:46,939 –> 00:17:48,719 to discern which of these questions 378 00:17:48,719 –> 00:17:50,599 they’re actually asking. 379 00:17:50,599 –> 00:17:52,819 Because the answers are quite different. 380 00:17:52,819 –> 00:17:55,459 The approach, the response is quite different. 381 00:17:55,459 –> 00:17:58,000 You know there are many, many psalms 382 00:17:58,000 –> 00:17:59,420 that ask the question, why? 383 00:17:59,420 –> 00:18:01,140 Many psalms. 384 00:18:01,140 –> 00:18:04,319 My God, my God, why have You forsaken me? 385 00:18:04,319 –> 00:18:07,400 There is the why question, Psalm 22. 386 00:18:07,400 –> 00:18:09,300 But look for the word why in the psalm. 387 00:18:09,300 –> 00:18:10,140 It’s not there. 388 00:18:11,219 –> 00:18:13,219 What question is in the psalm? 389 00:18:14,079 –> 00:18:17,300 How long, four times. 390 00:18:17,300 –> 00:18:19,020 You didn’t hear that, you weren’t listening. 391 00:18:19,020 –> 00:18:21,500 If it’s a person who’s speaking to you, you say, 392 00:18:21,500 –> 00:18:25,020 how long, how long, how long, how long? 393 00:18:25,020 –> 00:18:29,219 This is not a question of making sense of suffering. 394 00:18:29,219 –> 00:18:32,199 This is a question of finding the strength to endure it. 395 00:18:33,180 –> 00:18:35,859 What this is a cry for is not for wisdom 396 00:18:35,859 –> 00:18:37,760 to which you are going to give some answer, 397 00:18:37,760 –> 00:18:38,939 but for strength. 398 00:18:40,359 –> 00:18:42,020 And that is why it’s so important 399 00:18:42,319 –> 00:18:45,000 that when the question is how am I gonna find strength, 400 00:18:45,000 –> 00:18:47,760 what’s the next thing that happens in verse three and four, 401 00:18:47,760 –> 00:18:52,760 that you find David coming and he’s asking for help? 402 00:18:53,119 –> 00:18:55,660 So you see if you were to come to David 403 00:18:55,660 –> 00:18:57,760 when he’s not asking the why question, 404 00:18:57,760 –> 00:19:00,119 he’s asking the how long question. 405 00:19:00,119 –> 00:19:01,520 And if you were simply to say to David, 406 00:19:01,520 –> 00:19:03,780 you know what, I know it’s years after you live, 407 00:19:03,780 –> 00:19:05,959 but one day, Romans 8, 28 will be written. 408 00:19:05,959 –> 00:19:08,760 And it says God works in all things for good 409 00:19:08,760 –> 00:19:11,239 for those who love him and so forth. 410 00:19:11,239 –> 00:19:14,780 David would not particularly be helped by that. 411 00:19:16,160 –> 00:19:18,800 He’s not asking, is God good? 412 00:19:18,800 –> 00:19:21,000 He’s asking, how do I get through tomorrow? 413 00:19:22,119 –> 00:19:24,160 And that’s the whole point of the prayer. 414 00:19:25,119 –> 00:19:26,439 So he asks for help. 415 00:19:26,439 –> 00:19:29,219 So recognize the problem, discern the question. 416 00:19:29,219 –> 00:19:32,719 This is about how to help our friends in dark places 417 00:19:32,719 –> 00:19:34,479 and then ask for help. 418 00:19:34,479 –> 00:19:38,439 The best thing you can do for a believer 419 00:19:38,439 –> 00:19:40,680 who feels overwhelmed with their sorrow 420 00:19:40,680 –> 00:19:44,400 and abandoned by God is to come alongside 421 00:19:45,319 –> 00:19:47,920 and to pray for them 422 00:19:47,920 –> 00:19:51,160 and to pray if they will allow you with them, 423 00:19:51,160 –> 00:19:54,819 especially when they feel that they are not able 424 00:19:54,819 –> 00:19:57,479 to pray for themselves. 425 00:19:57,479 –> 00:20:00,199 And notice how David prays here 426 00:20:00,199 –> 00:20:02,099 or what David prays for here. 427 00:20:02,099 –> 00:20:05,199 Consider and answer me O Lord my God. 428 00:20:05,199 –> 00:20:08,099 Light up my eyes. 429 00:20:08,760 –> 00:20:10,819 Now that is a prayer for strength. 430 00:20:12,439 –> 00:20:17,020 Here’s David and he’s in an agony of soul 431 00:20:17,020 –> 00:20:20,319 and he’s not looking for an answer. 432 00:20:20,319 –> 00:20:21,979 He’s looking for strength. 433 00:20:22,859 –> 00:20:24,140 He’s looking for the help 434 00:20:24,140 –> 00:20:26,359 and for the sense of the presence of God 435 00:20:26,359 –> 00:20:29,479 that’s going to enable him simply to keep going. 436 00:20:29,479 –> 00:20:31,839 And the best way that you can help someone 437 00:20:31,839 –> 00:20:33,560 who is in that situation 438 00:20:33,560 –> 00:20:35,920 who God may bring across your path this week 439 00:20:35,920 –> 00:20:37,900 is that you come alongside 440 00:20:37,900 –> 00:20:40,459 and you come alongside in genuine sympathy 441 00:20:40,459 –> 00:20:44,359 and that you help them to draw near to God in prayer 442 00:20:44,359 –> 00:20:48,900 when they feel that God is so very far off. 443 00:20:50,760 –> 00:20:52,560 So this is very practical 444 00:20:52,560 –> 00:20:56,900 in terms of how we pastor our own souls 445 00:20:56,900 –> 00:21:00,160 and how we seek to walk with 446 00:21:00,160 –> 00:21:03,880 and help with others who are suffering. 447 00:21:03,920 –> 00:21:06,520 Lay out what you feel. 448 00:21:06,520 –> 00:21:09,739 Lift up what you need. 449 00:21:11,219 –> 00:21:16,219 Number three, lean into what you know. 450 00:21:16,239 –> 00:21:18,859 Lean into what you know. 451 00:21:18,859 –> 00:21:23,540 Verse five, but I have trusted 452 00:21:23,540 –> 00:21:28,540 in your steadfast love. 453 00:21:31,199 –> 00:21:33,140 Do you notice how the turning point 454 00:21:33,239 –> 00:21:37,839 in the Psalm is in the character of God? 455 00:21:37,839 –> 00:21:39,119 If you study through the Psalms, 456 00:21:39,119 –> 00:21:41,939 you’ll find that again and again and again. 457 00:21:41,939 –> 00:21:46,939 That the turning point is in the character of God, 458 00:21:46,959 –> 00:21:51,500 your steadfast love. 459 00:21:53,160 –> 00:21:58,160 Now, this is the great bible Hebrew word hesed 460 00:21:59,459 –> 00:22:01,400 that many of you may be familiar with 461 00:22:01,459 –> 00:22:03,560 and it’s translated in different ways. 462 00:22:03,560 –> 00:22:06,640 Steadfast love is a wonderful way to translate it. 463 00:22:06,640 –> 00:22:09,839 It simply means love that lasts. 464 00:22:09,839 –> 00:22:12,560 It means love that you can count on. 465 00:22:13,560 –> 00:22:17,119 It means love that endures on and on and on 466 00:22:17,119 –> 00:22:18,479 through thick and thin, 467 00:22:18,479 –> 00:22:21,719 through the best and through the worst. 468 00:22:22,839 –> 00:22:24,920 “‘I have trusted,’ says David, 469 00:22:24,920 –> 00:22:29,219 “‘in your steadfast love.’” 470 00:22:30,079 –> 00:22:31,119 Think of it. 471 00:22:32,219 –> 00:22:35,219 David’s opened up all that he feels, 472 00:22:35,219 –> 00:22:38,400 but now he’s going to lean into what he knows. 473 00:22:39,800 –> 00:22:41,979 What do we know about the love of God? 474 00:22:43,459 –> 00:22:45,719 The love of God for you, my friend, 475 00:22:46,640 –> 00:22:49,920 and remind your soul of this often 476 00:22:49,920 –> 00:22:51,920 when you’re in the darkest times, 477 00:22:52,979 –> 00:22:57,540 the love of God for you never began. 478 00:22:58,180 –> 00:23:03,180 It had no beginning and it will never end. 479 00:23:05,079 –> 00:23:07,199 It will be to all eternity. 480 00:23:08,479 –> 00:23:13,479 You have loved me with an everlasting love. 481 00:23:17,199 –> 00:23:20,280 And David in the moments of his greatest darkness 482 00:23:20,280 –> 00:23:24,300 where his feelings are not able even to comprehend 483 00:23:24,300 –> 00:23:26,060 a sense of the presence of God 484 00:23:26,060 –> 00:23:29,459 leans into this great revealed truth 485 00:23:29,459 –> 00:23:33,739 of who God is and what God has revealed about Himself. 486 00:23:35,099 –> 00:23:37,300 And think about how powerful this is. 487 00:23:37,300 –> 00:23:39,420 What’s the problem David is facing? 488 00:23:39,420 –> 00:23:43,359 He is facing a problem that shows no sign of going away. 489 00:23:44,540 –> 00:23:49,540 He is facing a trouble that has been for a long time 490 00:23:49,739 –> 00:23:53,060 and so his question is how long? 491 00:23:54,380 –> 00:23:56,199 And how is he gaining help? 492 00:23:56,199 –> 00:23:58,180 He is gaining help in this way, 493 00:23:58,180 –> 00:24:01,099 that he dares to believe that God’s love 494 00:24:01,099 –> 00:24:05,020 will go on longer than his suffering, 495 00:24:05,020 –> 00:24:09,859 that it will outlast the pain that he endures. 496 00:24:10,839 –> 00:24:15,119 David confronts the pain of long-lasting sorrow 497 00:24:15,979 –> 00:24:20,439 with the longer-lasting love of God. 498 00:24:21,400 –> 00:24:24,160 And friends, there are times, 499 00:24:24,160 –> 00:24:27,800 and this is most of the time in the Christian life, 500 00:24:27,800 –> 00:24:32,800 when you know the love of God by faith and by feeling. 501 00:24:32,979 –> 00:24:33,880 That’s wonderful. 502 00:24:35,119 –> 00:24:37,160 But there are times in the Christian life 503 00:24:37,160 –> 00:24:40,699 where you know the love of God by faith alone. 504 00:24:41,699 –> 00:24:43,260 And that’s where David is here. 505 00:24:44,479 –> 00:24:47,119 There’s a gritting of David’s teeth almost 506 00:24:47,119 –> 00:24:48,839 as he says this, 507 00:24:48,839 –> 00:24:52,020 and it’s a marvelously courageous statement of faith. 508 00:24:53,040 –> 00:24:56,560 I’ve been absolutely candid here, Oh God. 509 00:24:56,560 –> 00:24:58,280 I feel like you’ve forgotten me, 510 00:24:58,280 –> 00:25:00,640 that you’re not even looking in my direction, 511 00:25:00,640 –> 00:25:03,560 but I’m asking for your help, light my eyes, 512 00:25:03,560 –> 00:25:04,959 and here’s what I’m gonna do, 513 00:25:04,959 –> 00:25:07,000 I’m gonna lean into what I know, 514 00:25:07,000 –> 00:25:10,119 and in this long, long, long, suffering, 515 00:25:10,119 –> 00:25:13,199 I am going to find my strength 516 00:25:13,199 –> 00:25:16,880 in your longer lasting love. 517 00:25:19,319 –> 00:25:21,300 And then the last thing is simply this. 518 00:25:23,839 –> 00:25:25,680 Look to Jesus Christ. 519 00:25:25,680 –> 00:25:29,599 Lay out what you feel, lift up what you need, 520 00:25:29,599 –> 00:25:34,599 lean into what you know, and look to Jesus Christ. 521 00:25:36,979 –> 00:25:40,319 We call this series, With Christ in the School of Prayer, 522 00:25:40,739 –> 00:25:44,359 remembering that the mind of Christ 523 00:25:44,359 –> 00:25:46,219 was saturated with these psalms. 524 00:25:46,219 –> 00:25:47,640 He would have learned them growing up, 525 00:25:47,640 –> 00:25:48,780 used them in worship. 526 00:25:48,780 –> 00:25:51,300 He quoted them repeatedly. 527 00:25:51,300 –> 00:25:53,520 He used them and he experienced them 528 00:25:53,520 –> 00:25:56,439 and he is always with us, Christ is with us 529 00:25:56,439 –> 00:25:57,479 when we pray them. 530 00:25:58,599 –> 00:26:01,319 It’s good to ask, what did Jesus know about this Psalm? 531 00:26:01,319 –> 00:26:04,800 How would Psalm 13 have related to him? 532 00:26:04,800 –> 00:26:07,260 You just need to ask the question to see the answer. 533 00:26:07,260 –> 00:26:08,920 Did Jesus ever know 534 00:26:08,939 –> 00:26:11,280 what it is to be in an agony of soul? 535 00:26:11,280 –> 00:26:13,660 That’s a question worth asking when you’re there. 536 00:26:15,459 –> 00:26:17,079 And do you know the answer? 537 00:26:17,079 –> 00:26:19,400 Hebrews chapter five and verse seven 538 00:26:19,400 –> 00:26:22,239 during the days of his flesh he offered up prayers 539 00:26:22,239 –> 00:26:25,699 with loud cries and tears. 540 00:26:25,699 –> 00:26:27,640 Not just in the garden of Gethsemane, 541 00:26:27,640 –> 00:26:30,560 he knew what it was to be in an agony of soul 542 00:26:30,560 –> 00:26:32,979 and therefore he’s able to stand with you 543 00:26:32,979 –> 00:26:34,119 when you are there. 544 00:26:35,119 –> 00:26:37,760 Did Jesus know what it is, verse two to say 545 00:26:37,760 –> 00:26:41,020 I have sorrow in my heart all the day. 546 00:26:41,020 –> 00:26:44,640 Yes, that is why he was called the man of sorrows 547 00:26:44,640 –> 00:26:46,359 and familiar with suffering. 548 00:26:46,359 –> 00:26:48,099 That’s why in the garden of Gethsemane, 549 00:26:48,099 –> 00:26:51,119 he says, my soul is sorrowful to the point of death. 550 00:26:51,119 –> 00:26:52,939 How sorrowful is that? 551 00:26:55,540 –> 00:26:58,800 Did Jesus ever know what it was, verse one, 552 00:26:58,800 –> 00:27:02,680 for the Father to hide his face. 553 00:27:02,680 –> 00:27:05,900 The father who he had loved from all eternity. 554 00:27:07,900 –> 00:27:11,819 Oh yes, my God, my God, why have you forsaken me, 555 00:27:1,819 –> 00:27:14,800 he cries out as he bears the sin of the world 556 00:27:14,800 –> 00:27:18,939 in the darkness right there on the cross. 557 00:27:20,239 –> 00:27:23,520 Jesus knows what it is to be in an agony of soul 558 00:27:23,520 –> 00:27:26,800 and he is the Savior for those who suffer 559 00:27:26,800 –> 00:27:31,000 because he is the suffering Savior. 560 00:27:32,920 –> 00:27:34,619 He’s the Savior for you. 561 00:27:35,140 –> 00:27:38,599 He’s the one who can walk with you here 562 00:27:38,599 –> 00:27:40,560 in a way that no one else ever can. 563 00:27:43,339 –> 00:27:44,699 I end with two quotes. 564 00:27:45,859 –> 00:27:48,459 John Stott captures this so well 565 00:27:48,459 –> 00:27:51,979 in a moving passage in his book, The Cross of Christ. 566 00:27:53,780 –> 00:27:55,719 Begins with a very striking statement. 567 00:27:55,719 –> 00:27:59,459 John Stott says I could never believe in God 568 00:27:59,459 –> 00:28:01,540 if it were not for the cross. 569 00:28:01,540 –> 00:28:02,859 Will you think about that? 570 00:28:03,699 –> 00:28:05,420 I could never believe in God 571 00:28:07,119 –> 00:28:08,939 if it were not for the cross. 572 00:28:09,939 –> 00:28:12,140 He continues in a world of pain, 573 00:28:12,140 –> 00:28:14,900 how could one worship a god who was immune to it? 574 00:28:16,660 –> 00:28:19,939 He says I have entered many Buddhist temples 575 00:28:20,939 –> 00:28:25,939 and stood respectfully before the statue of the buddha, 576 00:28:25,939 –> 00:28:30,219 his legs crossed, arms folded, eyes closed, 577 00:28:30,219 –> 00:28:31,900 the ghost of a smile playing 578 00:28:32,540 –> 00:28:36,060 round his mouth, a remote look on his face 579 00:28:36,060 –> 00:28:38,680 detached from the agonies of the world. 580 00:28:40,500 –> 00:28:43,760 But each time after a while, I have to turn away. 581 00:28:44,979 –> 00:28:47,619 And in my imagination I have turned instead 582 00:28:47,619 –> 00:28:51,459 to that lonely twisted tortured figure on a cross, 583 00:28:51,459 –> 00:28:53,420 nails through his hands and feet, 584 00:28:53,420 –> 00:28:56,540 back lacerated, limbs wrenched, 585 00:28:56,540 –> 00:28:58,699 brow bleeding from the thorn pricks, 586 00:28:58,800 –> 00:29:02,219 his mouth dry and intolerably thirsty, 587 00:29:02,219 –> 00:29:05,359 plunged into godforsaken darkness. 588 00:29:05,359 –> 00:29:08,239 That, he says, is God for me. 589 00:29:10,979 –> 00:29:12,439 And that is the God for you. 590 00:29:14,199 –> 00:29:17,859 That is the only God for a world like this. 591 00:29:20,699 –> 00:29:24,439 Edward Sciletto experienced the horrors 592 00:29:25,359 –> 00:29:30,359 of trench warfare, First World War. 593 00:29:32,219 –> 00:29:34,939 And you know how many people who endured 594 00:29:34,939 –> 00:29:37,640 the horrors of war 595 00:29:37,640 –> 00:29:41,420 felt that they could no longer believe in God as a result. 596 00:29:43,099 –> 00:29:44,979 Sciletto went the other way. 597 00:29:46,380 –> 00:29:49,619 The horrors of war convinced him absolutely 598 00:29:49,939 –> 00:29:54,239 that a suffering world needs a suffering savior, 599 00:29:55,400 –> 00:29:58,000 and he wrote a poem called Jesus of the Scars 600 00:29:58,000 –> 00:30:00,579 that includes these memorable lines. 601 00:30:01,699 –> 00:30:04,280 The other gods, he says, were strong, 602 00:30:04,280 –> 00:30:06,579 the other gods of the world of religion. 603 00:30:06,579 –> 00:30:09,140 The other gods were strong, 604 00:30:09,140 –> 00:30:12,380 but you were weak. 605 00:30:12,380 –> 00:30:17,219 They erode, but you did stumble to your throne. 606 00:30:17,260 –> 00:30:22,260 To our wounds, only God’s wounds can speak, 607 00:30:22,459 –> 00:30:26,579 and not a God has wounds, 608 00:30:26,579 –> 00:30:29,760 but you alone, 609 00:30:31,060 –> 00:30:35,060 and the wounds of Christ are his credentials 610 00:30:35,060 –> 00:30:37,260 to a suffering world. 611 00:30:38,819 –> 00:30:43,819 Christ suffered and he came through it. 612 00:30:43,979 –> 00:30:46,900 And he came through it, 613 00:30:47,459 –> 00:30:53,859 and by God’s Grace and in his strength so will you. 614 00:30:55,060 –> 00:30:56,819 Let’s pray together. 615 00:30:57,859 –> 00:31:04,500 This Christ with the nail-pierced hand stretches them out before us and says 616 00:31:04,500 –> 00:31:06,939 to this congregation today, 617 00:31:07,540 –> 00:31:20,180 Come to me, all you who are weary and heavy laden and I will give you rest. 618 00:31:22,780 –> 00:31:31,060 Almighty God, for your Son, our suffering and yet exalted Savior, 619 00:31:31,459 –> 00:31:39,540 we give you our thanks as we bow before you in worship today. 620 00:31:39,540 –> 00:31:44,459 Through Jesus Christ, our Lord. Amen!

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Colin Smith is the Senior Pastor of The Orchard Evangelical Free Church in the northwest suburbs of Chicago. He has authored a number of books, including Heaven, How I Got Here and Heaven, So Near – So Far. Colin is the Founder and Teaching Pastor for Open the Bible. Follow him on X formerly Twitter.

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